Foreplay is very important in a couple’s sexual life. This is not only done just to get ready to do the deed but this can help both parties to get to know their partner in a more intimate way. Most of the common problem of the couples that often make foreplay as a routine before sex is that they will eventually get used to it and the fun side will be out of the picture. Sex should always be fun for both parties and especially the foreplay.
There are some couples that go to the extreme as to wear costumes or act certain things before they start with the actual sex. If this works for them you should also find what works for you and your partner.
Know Your Partner
In anything that you do you need to put your partner into consideration first. Any kind of foreplay will only be enjoyable if both of you agree on it. Make sure that your partner is comfortable with what you are planning to do before you decide on actually doing it.
As some couples might agree to keep it interesting and for the two of you to both look forward to doing the actual deed it is important that you send sexual videos to each other when you are apart or out with friends. Foreplay is not only limited to your bedroom.
Send Some Sexual Gestures Randomly
Sending some random messages like you missed your partner or you are looking forward to seeing them when the day ends is the perfect way to start heating up things. You need to get them into the same page as you are into getting it on tonight. It is fun that as a couple you both look forward to what will happen to you both in bed when you get home. So try to think sexy thoughts and make sure your partner also gets it.
Try to Make it Different Every Time
Do a variety of things when the time comes that you both are ready and expecting to get things started. You can try to follow something that is done from a movie that excites you both. You can also try to buy a book that gives you some tips on what unique things you can do to get you both ready for sex. Never turn it into a routine, make sure that you surprise your partner every time and you should also encourage them to do things that would surprise you as well.
Remember that foreplay is just as important as the actual intercourse and it usually is longer than the actual sex itself. Most women love the foreplay part because of all the possible sensation that they could feel while doing it. It’s not only to make you wet or get a hard on but this is about knowing each other better. Foreplay will help you discover the places where your partner would like to be touch and it is also the best way to get to know them better.